For Beyond 50's "Celebrity" talks, listen to an interview with Ginger Alden. She'll talk about her love relationship with Elvis, when their paths crossed multiple times before what Elvis later deemed fate intervened. When Alden's sister, the newly crowned Miss Tennessee, was invited to Graceland to meet Elvis, she came along too, unaware that her life would be changed forever on the evening of Friday, November 19, 1976.
Upon meeting
Elvis, it was for Alden an instant and immense attraction. His powerful
presence felt obvious too. Elvis delighted them with a personal tour
of his home and sang "You'll Never Walk Alone" while playing on his
electric organ.
"I was taken by how down-to-earth he was, and by his sexy smile and laugh," wrote Alden.
On
their first night getting acquainted, Elvis and Ginger spent hours on
his bed (on the upper floor) reading from his books on Numerology and
Christianity, sharing their thoughts and feelings. He gave her a quick,
light kiss to see her off. Always a gentleman, Elvis made sure she was
driven home safely by his assistant.
Almost
overnight at twenty-years-old, Alden was being swept off her feet by
Elvis - both figuratively and literally when he sent one of his planes
to pick her up to join him on tour - and before long she was a
permanent fixture in his entourage. She spent the next nine months
getting to know - and fall in love with - the real Elvis Presley.
The
attraction to Alden was powerful. Elvis later admitted to her by
saying,"Seeing you was like seeing someone I've always known and yet
never known...I kind of see my mother when I look at you."
On the night of
January 26, Ginger was lead by Elvis to his palatial bathroom. He knelt
before her to say, "Ginger, I've been search for love so long and never
in my wildest dreams did I ever think I would find it in my own
backyard. I've been sixty percent happy and forty percent happy, but
never a hundred percent. I've loved before, but I've never been in
love. Ginger, I"m asking you: Will you marry me?"
Elvis
proclaimed to marry her when the time was right - based on God's Will.
He hinted at having a private ceremony of few guests, like public
officials and friends, in a nondenominational church that's shaped like a
pyramid, even suggesting that Alden's dress have a high collar with
small rosebuds with gold threads through it and complemented by clear, glass-looking slippers and a tiara in her hair.
Alden was engaged to
Elvis for nine months when she found him unresponsive on his bathroom
floor after falling from his commode at Graceland on August 16, 1977.
"A
hint of air expelled from his nose. The tip of his tongue was clenched
between his teeth and his face was blotchy, with purple discoloration. I
gently raised one eyelid. His eye was staring straight ahead and
bloodred," recalled Alden in her book.
Nearby was Elvis' young daughter, Lisa Marie, frantically racing down the hallway to see what happened to her father.
The
Shelby County medical examiner ruled Elvis's cause of death as cardiac
arrhythmia with severe cardiovascular disease. This was hard to for
Alden to fathom because Elvis was only 42-years-old.
By writing honestly, Alden wanted to dispel the myths that have been circulated by the media that she found hurtful:
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Elvis did not drink or take street drugs, but had a strong dependency
on sleep medications (Quaaludes), which may have contributed to his
erratic mood swings.
- Physically, he appeared bloated from retaining fluids, but was not fat.
-He
had a special interest in Eastern religion and philosophy,preferring
books on Numerology and "Autobiography of a Yogi" by Paramahansa
Yogananda, "Only Love" by Sri Daya Mata, "The Road Ahead" by Swami
Kriyananda, "Through the Eyes of the Masters" by David Anrias, "The
Scientific Search fo the Face of Jesus," and "Sex and Psychic Energy" by Betty Bethards (found in his bathroom on the day of his death).
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The last year of his life was not a runaway train toward suicide. "He
was excited about life and enthusiastically making plans for the future
as he endeavored to transform his dreams into a reality - a reality that
included marrying me," expressed Alden.
Years
after Elvis' death, Alden moved to New York, married and waited until
her son, Hunter, turned 20 to truthfully share her remarkable love story
with the world.
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